While daddy/girl play is common in hardcore porn or during rough sex, DDLG is a completely unique roleplay fetish. It goes beyond conventional daddy talk (e.g., “Fuck me, daddy!”), and it can actually be a bit unusual to grasp at first. Today, we’ll explore the roles of Daddy and his naughty little girl and get you started with DDLG!
What Is DDLG?
First of all, DDLG (Daddy Dom/little girl) is a type of consensual fetish with two adult participants.
This ageplay fetish is related to BDSM. It requires a male Daddy Dom and a little girl. The interplay between a submissive female and a dominant man is not linked to incest or pedophilia by any means. Generally, it’s a misunderstood fetish. Some may feel that this practice is wrong or inappropriate. Still, it’s a form of roleplay that occurs with consent from both partners. The Daddy and his girl will arrange an agreement to discuss their rules, roles, and boundaries before the roleplay. Hence, it’s a completely normal fetish in which two partners enact their fantasies.
What’s more, many DDLG players have turned this kink into a lifestyle choice. Others, however, practice it only in the bedroom. Some can only roleplay with outfits and costumes in child-like activities. They can play with stuffed animals, read bedtime stories, and even use spanking when discipline is required. Those who prefer to make the roleplay sexual can try all sorts of activities that focus on power exchange.
When it comes to sex, the little girl will typically perform various acts to satisfy her Daddy. BDSM accessories can also allow the Daddy to discipline his girl and make her obey his commands. But, the little girl can also ask her Dom Daddy to fulfill her sexual needs. He knows the best ways of pleasuring her and can use sex as a form of reward.
Also, what sets DDLG apart from BDSM is the fact that the relationships are much more caring and sensual. Still, some can try DDLG with even the most hardcore sex practices. They can incorporate the roleplay into various BDSM kinks and other fetishes.
The Roles in DDLG
Ageplay and especially DDLG sets out to satisfy both partners on multiple levels. The Daddy Dom role is appealing to dominant men who are attracted to innocence and youth. They could also love this roleplay because of their natural instinct to provide. Conversely, the little girl role may suit submissive women who want a strong, dominant partner. Also, it appeals to those who constantly seek attention, praise, security, and discipline.
Daddies are usually the caregivers and also the punishers. They can be controlling and strict. However, they can also be gentle, kind, and supportive. The Dom Daddy has to know when to exert control and dominate/discipline his girl to make her obey him.
On the other hand, the little girl sub has a wider choice of roles. She can be of any age or even go through the whole process of growing up during the roleplay. That means she could be a baby who wears pacifiers and diapers. During the roleplay, she may grow into a teenage girl. Quite often, women in this role will act like silly brats. They could insist on a lot of cuddling and playing. The little girl will give consent to her partner, and she will also trust him regarding his decisions.
Moreover, we’ve said that some can make this roleplay into a lifestyle choice. They may practice it constantly during their day-to-day lives. Others, however, prefer to arrange set times for their DDLG sessions. DDLG players call this their “Little Space.” In it, both partners can unwind and participate in their DDLG roleplay. In a way, they can use it to escape from daily life, stress, and adult responsibilities.
From DDLG to BDSM Real Quick
For DDLG play, both roles will determine the specific scenes, activities, and outfits. The little girl generally gets all of the accessories and costumes. The Dom doesn’t require any special outfits except for some daddy-like clothes and even a leather belt for punishment. Some of the outfits and accessories for the sub include pajamas, adult diapers, onesies, sippy cups, teddy bears, pacifiers, etc.
One example of a session in Little Space is when the Daddy bathes and dresses his baby girl. Other activities could include playing with coloring books, games, and reading fairy tales. This can progress to disciplining, especially if the girl starts acting moody or bratty.
The most typical punishment would include spanking, although there are other forms of discipline. The Daddy could put his girl in detention by making her stand in a corner. He could make her write out some lines on a piece of paper or even wash her mouth with soap for swearing. What’s more, the punishments and the rewards can be sexual.
DDLG can progress to BDSM quickly if the partners agree on it. Some activities could include master/slave play, bondage, chastity play, consensual non-consent, paddling/flogging, anal training, tickling, playing with sex toys, etc.
Other Types of Littles In DDLG
There are a few variants of this roleplay. For instance, there’s ABDL, that is, adult baby and diaper lover play. It requires the Little to remain in diapers and act like a helpless newborn baby.
Additionally, CGL or Caregiver/Little is identical to DDLG. However, you can use it for a Mommy Domme (dominatrix) and her Little boy or girl. This kind of roleplay also goes by other terms: MDLB (Mommy Dom and Little Boy) and MDLG (Mommy Dom and Little Girl). Moreover, DDLB is the roleplay between a Daddy Dom and his little boy. Usually, the age of the Little is between 2 and 8 years old. It’s also common for partners to switch roles.
DDLG and other forms of ageplay can suit nearly any couple who wants to experiment with dominance and submission. As you’ve seen, it’s easy to transition from naughty DDLG play to BDSM kinks, and it may be worth it to try a session or two just to see if you are into it. So try some DDLG play today and have fun!