In BDSM, a dominatrix is the ultimate symbol of female empowerment and male obedience. She can instantly make you fantasize about high heels, latex catsuits, riding crops, bizarre sex toys, and kinky dungeon activities. Still, not many people know about what a domme actually does and how the profession really works. This article will discuss the rise of the dominatrix. We’ll show you what happens when men need serious domination!
What is a Dominatrix?
Contrary to what you may believe, a lot of men who exhibit power and strong alpha energy are actually sissies in disguise. They are just waiting to get brutally dominated. Enter: the dominatrix! A domme is the ultimate queen of BDSM. She takes on a dominant role during various fetishes and kinks. Also, she can make men feel humiliated and powerless through verbal or physical abuse.
The dominatrix is a goddess in the flesh who can use various skills and techniques to humiliate men. That includes orgasm denial, cock and ball torture, body worship, anal pegging, and tons of other naughty kinks. But, it’s important to draw a clear line between a professional dominatrix and a non-profit mistress.
Typically, a dominatrix provides services to men for a price. This is actually one of the most lucrative types of sex work. In contrast, the term “mistress” is used for women who practice dominant BDSM activities without any financial compensation.
Most of the time, professional dommes do not offer penetrative sex. Their services may not even require them to be nude. For many obvious reasons, a dominatrix is actually a symbol of empowerment. What’s more, most women who become dominatrices enjoy their work. It offers a unique type of sexual expression and an arousing rush. Still, being a domme or a mistress could take years to perfect. Also, it requires stamina, focus, dedication, and plenty of experience.
The Dominatrix and BDSM
As mentioned, dommes can operate in various ways. When males visit a dominatrix, the chances are that the majority of the session will focus on femdom.
That can include the use of whips and ropes to restrain and punish a male slave. It can also involve consensual abuse, foot worship, role play, sissy play, male anal training, etc. A dominatrix can perform highly kinky acts along the lines of prostate milking, corporate punishment, etiquette training, chastity play, and orgasm control. Things can get even naughtier with cyber femdom, medical play, reverse rape, small penis humiliation, financial domination or findom, etc.
In truth, each male submissive has a specific fetish. A pro domme can usually fulfill most of them, no matter how bizarre or degrading. When it comes to the actual job, dommes can work in independent spaces. Alternatively, they can operate as dungeon mistresses in commercial establishments. Many men prefer to visit dominatrices because it’s easy to find those who can fulfill their fantasy without being weird about it. It’s difficult to meet a willing and experienced BDSM partner in real life. Plus, at the end of the session, both sides can go their separate ways.
How Women Benefit from Being a Dominatrix
Like we’ve said, being a domme is a highly lucrative business. While it requires experience, most of it can come naturally to women who have a strong dominant side.
This profession is different from other sex work. It doesn’t usually require any conventional sex services from females. That means women do not have to worry about emotional and physical consequences. Furthermore, most dommes do not offer vaginal, anal, or oral penetration. Thus, they can keep their distance and provide a quality service to multiple male servants.
Also, the job doesn’t take a major toll on the female body. That means dommes can schedule more sessions. That way, they can earn a lot more compared to other sex workers.
Another reason why the business is lucrative is confidentiality. Usually, male clients and dommes have a confidentiality agreement. That is due to the nature of the activities. Dommes are often hired by high-ranking clientele. And the price for anonymity is quite high.
Aside from the financial reasons, taking control of men can truly be empowering for women. It can allow them to bend gender roles. It can put a stop to male dominance, which is omnipresent in our society.
Finding Your Dominatrix
So how can one locate a dominatrix? Firstly, this is not a cheap activity. You’ll have to be prepared to spend a lot.
The chances of finding a good domme through standard social media are slim. Some can be found through their Twitter accounts. But, you can use portals like FetLife. That’s a great place to start. Additionally, you can use listing sites for full-time dominatrices. Some are Pandemos and dickievirgin. That way, you might be able to get in touch with a domme or BDSM dungeon to schedule an appointment. For dommes that work in independent spaces, you could reach out to them via their personal websites.
However, it’s crucial to watch out for a few red flags. Namely, you can tell if a domme is experienced and successful through pictures. So inspect equipment and furniture. Dominatrix gear, accessories, wardrobe, and sex toys are usually very pricey. They can reveal a lot about your goddess’s services. Also, you can look for her training credentials. Still, it’s quite uncommon to find a domme that was trained by a legendary mentor nowadays.
Another tip is to avoid inexpensive options. Specifically, watch out for “too good to be true” dommes who try hard to conceal their identity. That can indicate a scam of some sort.
Time to Play!
As you’ve seen, being a dominatrix is a highly demanding profession. But, it’s possibly the only solution for men who need serious domination! Most importantly, it can truly make women feel empowered, and most will genuinely love their work.
So what do you think? Do you want to learn some dominatrix techniques and punish your male servant? Or are you a submissive guy who wants to get disciplined by the big D? Either way, it’s never too late for playtime! Have fun!
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